You are exactly where you are supposed to be. Just breathe.

I have come to the conclusion that I am exactly where I NEED to be in my life. I may not be where I WANT to be. But I AM where I NEED to be.-

– This was a previously much easier concept when I was thousands of feet above the world watching the sunrise from the top of a mountain in Bali, *Thousands of feet up from daily life, from any worries* ….exploring the southern hemisphere, critiquing beaches and sunsets for days on end. But now in the midst of 4th year uni I am surprisingly still at this conclusion that I am where I am supposed to be.

Of course I cannot speak for anyone else, but personally I have had plenty of people asking what I’m doing with my life? When am I going to get a boyfriend? Which career path am I choosing in the summer when I finish uni? Will I go travelling? When will I move out? When will I get married?  When will I have children? Will I do this? When are you doing that?…. Shortly followed by well you should be doing this, oh and this too, oh why haven’t you done that yet???

We do not need a 10 year master plan to feel content with our lives. It’s great to have aspirations, goals and a plan of how to get there, it really is. But if you are unsure of your current path, then that is also more than ok. When I overthink what I’m going to be doing in 10 years time, I am filled with anxiousness, worry, negative energy and quite frankly stress. Our lives are not destinations. Our happiness is not a destination. We need to learn to tackle what is in front of us. Take every 24 hours as they are, and appreciate and find contentment in every step of our journey.

I do not believe that I have a destiny, or that a higher power has a path in life for me. This is not the reason for my current self-assurance that I am where I need to be. I am where I need to be because this is exactly where I am. I cannot be at any other place so why should I make myself anxious over it?

I do however believe in the power of the atmosphere, of the universe and of frequency energy. If you put yourself on a higher frequency, if you believe in yourself, if you work hard, if you view yourself in a positive light, if you put into the world….more doors and opportunities will open for you, the universe will give back to you and you WILL get to where you want to be in time.

Always remember that our lives have a purpose.


I think that I am beginning to find my gift and I’m currently figuring out how to give it away.

We are all where we need to be. Breathe. Appreciate our circumstances and spread kindness into the world.


All my love always,

J xoxo









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